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If you're struggling a bit with your situation, maybe a few wise words from Bruce Lee will help:
"Defeat is a state of mind. No one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as reality. To me, defeat in anything is merely temporary, and its punishment is but an urge for me to greater effort to achieve my goal. Defeat simply tells me that something is wrong in my doing; it is a path leading to success and truth."
1940-1973, Martial Artist, Actor and Author